Sooner or later, at least once in life, even the most resistant person will be overwhelmed by love. When we meet it is a romance, the whole life has another color, another flavor, happiness spills out of all the pores of our skin and whatever we do is wonderful. However, no matter how much care we can take, sooner or later all this will end, leading us to indifference, pain, or suffering. Yet, this will last until we fall in love again.
But what happens when we fall in love?
From the bedroom to relationships, love is a considerable challenge, it confronts us with beauty as well as the limits, it makes us experience ecstasy as well as the hell of the judgments of the mind. Tantra can be a truly revolutionary tool in love, in sex, in relationships.It is an alchemy that can completely transform ourselves and our way of being with each other, and its secret is meditation.
That is possible only for a person who does not take life for granted, who moves deep into the quality of being alive and becomes existential, authentic. Love is for the person who accepts death here and now and does not postpone it. Then between these two a beautiful phenomenon arises: the river of love.
Often in relationships (of love, friendship, family...), we compromise for fear of hurting others or of losing them.
In this way, however, we are giving up our truth...
You don’t make love, love happens. Like meditation. In this sense the sexual act can be the ideal moment to expand our perceptions. The orgasm, infact, is a moment in which it’s easier to experience that sensation of losing self boundaries, erasing time and space’ Radha
